It is an auspicious moment, to go out for the first date
with your partner, as it is the first arrow which you project on your
relationship to build a great bond, but what if it turns into a night mare?
There are many traits that make a guy/girl the perfect one,
however, there are many turn offs which makes them hatred by their partners.
Here’s a list of those poor tradition one should be aware of
when going on for first date.
The biggest turn offs for women,
1.
Insecure/Nervy Personalities
Guys be aware of this, this is one of the
most negative trait you produce, which is a biggest turn off for the first
date. Let me tell you, we have heard about how our first impression impacts on others
we meet. The society would only keep you away, then how would girls believe in
you. On your first date, be sure you are confident; else it would ruin your
date. Women can easily notice your each move, if you are not confident, or
nervous it would alarm her and would lose her trust on you. So be aware of this
trait. Be who you are, never think of impressing any one, it would be a reason
for your backlash, be bold and energetic. Build an aura on yourself, which in
return make you Unique.
2.
Boring guys
Guys who are boring is a great turn off for
women, once in a while we meet someone who is very boring, their conversation
neither light up our eyes nor we fall asleep. Presence of mind is one which
brings women closer to us. Be present in this moment, go on be little
funny/naughty/aggressive, but never offend her.
3.
Loud/Boasting guys
Some guys show off/ build their image as a
super hero, one like who hits 100 villains at a time, Graphic type a GUY. Keep
in mind that you are not going be a hero in front of her unless you get a
chance. She believes in right actions at right time. So better wait and watch
for the right time to act. Perfect prediction, perfect foot work and perfect
timing sends the ball out of the stadium. Never be too impetuous, wait and act.
Well!!! I didn’t mean to say to kick the restaurant waiter if your order is
late, which never impress any girl LOL. Think wise.
4.
Hyper sensitive/ kiddo
We all are kid at heart; we have emotions
and also love to express it. Remember, why would women, want to be with them
who are their another version? Oops!
Never ever expose this trait on your first date, if you are that kind.
5.
Overenthusiastic/ Hyper active
Being active is a great nature of yours,
when it exceeds the limit, it leads to irritation. What is there is performing
as a one man show? She feels her absence very soon, she wants to indulge in the
activity, and she wants to impress you as well, give her chance, and let her
take the lead sometimes. It’s good that you impress her by being spontaneous,
meanwhile remember anything which is more is poisonous.
To be frank, like women, even men have many dreams on
dating!! Men too are very observant and highly sensitive when they feel
offended.
Now let me tell you the little things that turn men off in a
big way.
1.
Don’t be too controlling/dominating
Are you too controlling when your guys is
around you? Do you want everything he does in your approve? Well, it is good to
control him on occasions, or may be little rare, when is going in a way which
is not good to him, he may also feel sweetened/ cared. But if you make it a
routine, he would definitely feel offended and try to avoid you. Gosh! Please
don’t even think of it on your first date with him, let it be his show, enjoy
his way of pleasing you.
2.
Yes or no answers
Don’t be too shy, he is confused alien.
When you are with him, like, when he ask for your order for the dinner, pleas
be open and give him your suggestions on what to order, or else he would be confused.
Try to converse and share your opinion, he would feel relaxed and easy.
3.
Baby talking
If you are already in relationship, then
it’s fine. But on your first date never talk like an infant as it is one of the
fastest way to turnoff them. A guy may think
you’re being cute if you act girly and sweet, but mouthing words like a baby
that’s still learning to talk will only make him cringe. For baby talking to
work, there needs to be an intimate bond between the guy and the girl. If
you’re still getting to know each other, avoid talking like a baby. It won’t
turn him on, and you won’t look sweeter doing it!
4.
Getting too serious, too soon
This is one of the biggest mistake girls do.
Don’t try to be as you are already in relationship and scare that little
baby!!!
If he likes you and has said that he want
to meet you again and again, don’t take it seriously and call him all the time
and ask him whether he had food, what is he doing, why didn’t he call you or
why didn’t he inform you about his outing with friends. This would be a great
turn off for him and also he might take you for granted. Be aware of this.
5.
Never take him for granted
Last but the most important trait you have is
that you take him for granted. If you are in relationship, men may notice it
little later and oppose this. However, if you are going on for the first date
with him, never take his greets and care for granted as if it is his duty to
do, he may find it highly odd attitude and quickly run away. Be nice to him, he
deserves to be one.
Avoid these biggest dating turn offs and avoid crossing thin
line separating crazy and cute at any point of time when you are with him and
have a memorable time with your partner.
- Karnataka Express Bureau.
